Not Even the Peaceful WhatsApp Group is Free of Quarreling !
By: Prof. Kirya Ahmed Nasr
The massmedia facilitated, in no doubt, our life. You can contact a near relative in a far remote spot in a fraction of a second . Not to exaggrate, we receive most of our hottest news from abroad. Many guys tell that they received whatever had and has happened to them from Saudi Arabia or elsewhere.
WhatsApp, for example, easily connects its users . They build many contact groups for their communications and social connections .The groups send and receive hot and fresh news.The sound of a needle that falls is clearly to be heard; usually fast and fresh news . This whatsApp, and the other massmedia tools hasten the “death” of the art of “letter-writing” . Though in WhatsApp, we write messages but, you see ! In these messages there are some odd kind of words are used; clipped and distortted ; using, for example, the single “u” instead of the pronoun “you”. Yep, the “addresse pronoun”, you. They put it like this : thank u .They also use ASAP for the phrase ” as soon as possible” . Anyway , they clipped and cut our nicer words to bits and pieces.
In spite of the wider pros of this whatsApp, the cons could weighs loads of tons. This particularly can be seen in the chatting of the many built groups. Yep, the so called social groups. In fact , they are puropsively built for the meant social contacts. They have to chatt ; know each other ways in life ; who they hang with, who they play with , and who they ever meet regularly and talk to. In short, they know their colleagues and mates to the full. But, this intimacy and so close kind of online friendship might all of a sudden turn to severe enmity.
Yep ! It might turn to tears and tearing situations. Me, myself, and I participated and sharing unnumberable groups, but not a single group of all these is not to be last without a misunderstanding that leads to a terrible accusation of being classed as an anti to the other anti of that anti-anti.
Never, in my long journey of these groups to pass smoothly without intervening to cool down a disputarion ; be they, Hilal -Mariekh or Real Madrid- Barcelona ; Ah – Eh , … etc.
The Quarreling, sometimes, is heated to the extent that one vows and swear with divorce to leave and not to join again . Sometimes, leaving with very abusive words that one should cover his ears to hear .
But, this is not exactly whatsApp is for. It’s for a real social contacts , to know about yours closer and distant relatives, your bosom friends, acquaintances, old and new and LIFE is turned to be fully hanged on this so late kind of connection which is called “What’s Application” !
Don’t quarrel , please ! WhatsApp is not created for this . On the contrary, it’s create for more closer connections and ties . Hear me ? Do please !
-WhatsApp isn’t for fighting
-nor else is it for backbiting
-it’s for so nicely to befriend
-don’t make a battle instead